Hi, I don't have a gemini moon but I joined this tribe briefly to get the perspective of those who do on a prospective relationship of mine.
I know this girl who is a cusp born Aries/Taurus with a Gemini moon, Cancer rising. She also has a Venus in Gemini. Now, I have heard and it seems to be true with the gemini influenced people I've met, that geminis are fickle when it comes to relationships and rarely want commitment. Is this true? I connect very well with this said girl and I'm afraid I'm falling in love with her. She doesnt seem to exhibit fickleness too much, however, she is highly inexperienced (only had one boyfriend before, is still a virgin at 19, etc.).
I am a Pisces with a Scorpio Rising and Libra Moon. I have a very high need for commitment and monogamy. I don't mind others who don't but personally I can't be in a relationship with flighty women, it just takes too much toll on my emotional and psychological well being. So, I want to know, am I setting myself up for a fall? or is there potential?
Thanx for any imput,
Axe
I know this girl who is a cusp born Aries/Taurus with a Gemini moon, Cancer rising. She also has a Venus in Gemini. Now, I have heard and it seems to be true with the gemini influenced people I've met, that geminis are fickle when it comes to relationships and rarely want commitment. Is this true? I connect very well with this said girl and I'm afraid I'm falling in love with her. She doesnt seem to exhibit fickleness too much, however, she is highly inexperienced (only had one boyfriend before, is still a virgin at 19, etc.).
I am a Pisces with a Scorpio Rising and Libra Moon. I have a very high need for commitment and monogamy. I don't mind others who don't but personally I can't be in a relationship with flighty women, it just takes too much toll on my emotional and psychological well being. So, I want to know, am I setting myself up for a fall? or is there potential?
Thanx for any imput,
Axe
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Thu, January 17, 2008 - 8:00 PM''she is highly inexperienced''
It's kind of the other way around.
''Is this true?''
It's not that they want to inflict harm, they just don't connect with everyone.They sort things as they are.
I have sun, moon and mercury in gemini.Sorry i couldn't give more info.
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Thu, January 17, 2008 - 9:28 PMim taurus sun with gemini moon, and venus in gemini. and ... oddly enough, my recent love encounter is with a pisces boy... YES, i can (and like to) commit no problem ... but only certain guys can get me to do so .... it may seem to some guys that i am 'fickle in love' and play hard to get ALL the time ... but its with guys that im not really interested in... in this case i'd just keep him at a friends only distance .... and that's as far as it would ever go.
however, if he wins me over and i really really like the guy, (and im very picky, so it doesn't happen often) then i WANT to be committed for sure. so i say, GO for it, there is potential for sure !!! us gemini moons are FUN to be with so enjoy. hahaha.
and as for the taurus-pisces match up... ive been realizing that im sometimes too sarcastic and even mean to my adorable pisces boy (without meaning to or even realizing it!) ... i think he'll take what i say too seriously or something, so im now making a concious effort to compliment him more and make him feel smart around me , or whatever .... that might be the only problem, pisces not sharing their true feelings and secretly getting hurt. -
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Fri, January 18, 2008 - 6:20 AMhey Thanks for the imput, Denise. -
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Sat, January 19, 2008 - 2:03 PMThe Aries Taurus Cancer rising. This wouldn’t lend to “flighty” on the contrary.
Any hint of selfish intent or lowering respect level, and the Gemini Moon will fly off.
Cancer rising sidestep and close shell, Aries Taurus?? W/ Fiery, Fixed earthy resolve…lol
Cancer rising’s by nature, are very intuitive also.
Has prob. passes off many selfish intended guys. (in 1st 7 seconds)...
If your truly respectfully in Love w/ her,
your in, at least as far as having her respect.
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Wed, January 30, 2008 - 12:46 AMMy partner has Venus in Gemini... he is not fickle or playful. Indeed, I don't understand how it functions in his chart -- I don't see it. I have a Gemini moon... I'm fickle... more like moody. A raincloud passes over my face sometimes. -
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Sun, February 10, 2008 - 7:56 AM
Dear Axe,
I'm a woman with moon (and mars) in Gemini with Cancer rising too (and the Sun in Aquarius). And yes, i am fickle and can be moody,
but i'm not flighty. I've never cheated. Maybe my cancer rising stops me from doing so, i don't know. But just like you, i need monogomy in a relationship, and i need it bad. No messing around. I find it hard to commit myself to someone and settle down though. I just need a lot of space. And fickleness can manifest itself in many ways, it doesn't need to be about fidelity. For example, i can go from being a very affectionate lovebunny to being totally cool and detached within minutes. But that doesn't mean i will be on the lookout for someone else, it just means my moods change- a lot.
But more important is: Our birthchart is not the boss of us. These are complicated energies at work (and good teachers!); they're not our bonestructure.
I can totally understand why you're cautious, i might be too, but i think we should always base our decisions on the actual situation, persons involved, our (gut)feelings etc.
Maybe in the meantime you've already started something, or things have changed....
Anyhow: Good luck and lots of love!
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Sun, February 10, 2008 - 8:12 AMOh, and yes, Denise is right: We Gemini moons can be a lot of fun! (^_-)
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Thu, February 21, 2008 - 9:36 PMI'm an aries with a gemini moon (I also have a lot of taurus and pisces influences in my chart) and I have no problem committing when, as someone else said before me (don't remember who it was) I am truly into a guy. If I'm not really that interested I am going to cut it off as soon as possible, I don't see a point in seeing if it works out if I don't really feel something from the beginning.
I think that oftentimes opposites attract. If you're really into commitment and need that in a relationship, she will probably like that because she may not feel that way about relationships. . . maybe it'll be something completely new and different for her, which will probably keep her interested.
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Re: question for those with a Gemini moon
Mon, March 3, 2008 - 5:50 PMIf she's already your girlfriend, then you have nothing to worry about it. It's the ones that want us, but we don't want them, that we string along behind us. It's not as cruel as it sounds; when we find the right person, we stop all of the fickleness and commitment phobia stuff - it's not even part of the picture after that. It's just that, you got to have some sort of a game to deflect the others, right? To scare them off?
That might just be the Virgo talking. I'm a triple Virgo, double Gemini (Moon and Mars) with Aquarius rising. I've cheated before, but it was in such extreme circumstances - it was for revenge, and I would never do it to someone that I cared for, truly. Geminis usually don't have cruel intentions - I don't associate the two words together, at all.
Best of luck!
